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Obviously, if I trade my love life with great career, I won't have a chance to be a parent. After all, it's freaking Malaysia. Things that I stand and believe for is not something my country will ever approve. It tooks 2013 for USA to do so, you can only imagine it for my country but I get where it coming for. Not in this life, perhaps. 

Anyway, I was watching Jo Frost : Extreme Parental Guidance and it hit me when a mom said that her daughter always come to her, to talk to her at the wrong time. Excuse me? There is no specified time for your daughter to talk to you. They are your precious children, not some patient going for a therapy session. Always have a time for your kids, especially one that going through puberty; being teenager ain't easy. Coming from my background, I'm no a pro in being a parent but as a son to an amazing pair of parent, I know how it feels. 

I don't have the access to talk to my parent when I have trouble or things to be share when I was a teenager because I know where do my parent came from. My parent are not a modern parent. Modern parent should know better. As of now, I don't share anything with my mom because she wouldn't understand it thoroughly. I just share some basic things. For example, I haven't told my family about my final exam's result. A follower in Twitter tweet how his father is so proud of his results; that is something I would never experienced but I will put it as a fire to motivate me. That alone, will teach me to be a good parent if I have any chance in the future. 

So for the future or current parents out there, little things do matter to the children. Spend time as much as you could with them. Be caring. 

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