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Before I start with anything, let's give a shout out to my big sister, Jacqueline, turned 30 years old today! Happy birthday, sister! God bless you. May the big 3 bring happiness and everything good to you.  :)


Yesterday, as I scrolling down my Whatsapp to see new status of my contacts and I terbaca this status one of my closest family member. It got something to do with LGBT. Nothing anti remarks, just something where that person claim his/her love to the same gender. Not big deal, being a member of LGBT myself but it is when he/she is my closest family member. 

I know he/she is LGBT based on my gaydar but I would not be the bitch, outed someone when he/she is not ready to come out of the closet. To me, that person is only LGBT if he/she said so. That is his/her rights. I was once try to come out to this person but never had the chance because I have not find the right time yet. I guess, with he/she coming out, I can come out to her too. By the way, none of my family members know that I am gay, so it is kind of a big deal for me to coming out to them. 

But I do not know what to do at this time. Should I write something to him/her? To tell him/her how open I am with his/her sexual orientation and that I will always love him/her no matter what. It is just a method to let he/she know that I accept his/her life. Acceptance is important, in family. And tell him/her that I'm LGBT too? Hmm.. This could be start of something new. 

p/s: If you do read this, I love you. I do not care what gender do you love, I still love you. :)

Comments

ZacRie said…
I guess you should give him/her a time to rethink and acceptance. I know this could not be related to the soap series or movie but in fact sometimes it might relate to our daily life. When that person is totally ready for the outcome, from there you can make a move by telling how open you are .. ensure you talk at the right place and more privately. It much better face to face.
October 29, 2013 at 9:38 PM
Jackson John Entinggi said…
You think so? Hmm..

I've been reading this:
http://www.anotetomykid.com/

So, it kinda inspired to do so. But since you said that, I might have to rethink my move.
October 30, 2013 at 9:31 PM
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